Friday, September 1, 2017

MASCULINE DOMINATION IS LEADING TO EYE FOR AN EYE

In continuation to my previous article on early marriage between the age of 19 to 22 I find that we men’s are the real reasons behind the early marriage. We tease, we pass comments we create a threatening atmosphere by acid attacks which kills the dream of the girls for higher education. We men’s are uneducated at home and even after getting basic schooling. We think that by dominating someone we will prove our strength.  This is education of dominating have been passed as legacy by the uneducated traditional education departed from our grand fathers to us. Our grand fathers used to treat women just item for sex  and that’s why they used to have 12 to 15 even 21 children. Now please don’t blame that there were nothing as entertainment hence sex was the only entertainment. Well our grandfathers should have understood that how much pain it takes for a child to take birth which is being born by women. Hence 12 15 or 21 are not numbers they are pains for 9 months with many cases of death and even post delivery medical complications.

Now our fore fathers taught as eye for an eye and that’s what has been passed as legacy to the mens society. The torture on women is not restricted to women now. Yes the funniest part of the education taught by our forefather right from the school days that eye for eye has lead to the birth of ragging in today’s society. Just imagine how much pain your children who are also men face when they go through the path of ragging. Does nay one knows from where this ragging concept came up. Its nothing. It has come up from that same dominating education where eye for eye was taught. Now men’s have gone beyond women and have started killing their own masculine.

The education of domination and males are the sole powerful animal of the society have lead to killing of young generation from small incidents which often happen on Street. One family saw his father bitting her wife, then the legacy passed to son and he did also the same thing and later the grandchild also walked on the footsteps of the grandfather and father and he also started the same with his wife. Now   when this type of education is departed then one fine morning the father or the grand father is thrown out of the house. Yes ill treatment legacy passes to everyone and it cannot be stopped now. The generation has taught only humiliation and no love and affection. Eye for eye does not mention or define which eye to be plucked off. Many of my friends will come up with strong strictures that this type of education has not been passed to everyone. Well I am talking of the ones who bite their wife, engaged in the profession of ragging and ones who throw acid on acid on women who do don’t accept love or sex proposal.

We men’s have messed up and we are directionless regarding eye for an eye. We need to understand and accept what our grandfathers did or taught were wrong. Well not all wrong but at the same time not all right also.

Our attitude towards women and society is so much dominating that we are throwing   acid on our own daughters . We have destroyed the society.  That 12 to 15 children used to be from our own wife but the matter is not of child’s but of sex being treated as birth right from women. Now they legacy of sex passed on but with a different lesson that have sex from any one you wish. The perception got changed that sex is proof of the masculine.  Treating women as object for sex enjoyment lead to negligible emotional attachment to the women’s lead to a devastation. 

Now in a society where women are dominated and tortured they also grow the mentality of dominance and torture over the period time as the legacy of the same passes slowly and infects a noble heart also. Now when that woman gets power in hand in the form of Mother In law the devil of Dominance dominates and kills the girl after who is newly married. Either you face the same torture and abide the Mother In laws Brutality or get burnt or killed by the In laws Yes this the legacy we have created and passed through the mindset of masculine dominance.

I find education is the prime reason behind this social imbalance and masculine mindset. Primitive education is just like the primitive ways of communication. We not only need smart cities , smart phone but also smart well educated mind set where completion within family or within husband and wife is zeroed. We need a society of understanding that dominating each other don’t lead to growth of one’s life. Eye for an eye has lead to the birth of ragging, acid attack and many more such incidents.

Even in Urban society we find this primitive mind set. Masculine domination is eradicating our next generations. 

Even I find that there are many TV serials where this masculine domination is being telecasted which is giving a wrong lesson to the this generation which will further amplify into eye for an eye. Today you throw acid on someone face on the other day someone else will throw on your family member. You need to understand that Brutality has now future. Accepting life and making a progressive mindset is the ideal masculine mindset. Innovation should never be in closed doors. It should always be open.

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